BLACK ROYALTY

This is a letter that was written to a newspaper in the U.S...

Dear Jaime,

Im sorry but I would like to challenge some of your black male readers.I am
a white female who is engaged to a black male who is good looking,educated
and loving.I just don't understand a lot of black female's attitudes about
our relationship.My man decided he wanted me because the pickings amongst
black women were slim to none.As he said they were too fat, too ugly, too
loud, too mean, too argumentative, too needy, too materialistic, or carrying
too much baggage.Before I became engaged, whenever I went out I was
constantly being approached by black men, willing to wine and dine me and
give me the world.
If black women are so up in arms about us being with their men, why don't
they look at themselves and make some changes. I am tired of the dirty looks
and snide remarks I get when we are out in public. I would like to hear
from some black men about why we are so appealing and coveted by them.
Bryant Gumbel just left his wife of 26 years for one of us. Charles Barkley,
Scotty Pippen, the model Tyson Beckford, Montell Williams, Quincy Jones,
James Earl Jones, Harry Bellafonte, Sydney Poitier, Kofi Anan, Cuba Godding
Jnr, Don Cornelius, Berry Gordy, Billy Blanks, Larry Fishburne,Wesley
Snipes, I could go on and on. But right now, I am a little angry and that is
why I wrote this so hurriedly. Don't be mad with us white women because so
many of your men want us.Get your acts together and learn from us and we may
lead you to treat your men better. If I am wrong, black men, let me know.
Disgusted White Girl, Somewhere in VA.
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This letter was written by a black man in response to the letter from the

Disgusted White Girl.

Dear Jaime,

I would like to respond to the letter written by a Disgusted White Girl.Let
me start by saying that I am a 28 year old black man;I graduated from one of
the most prestigious universities in Atlanta, Georgia with a Bachelor
of Arts Degree in Business Management. I have a good job at a major
Corporation & have recently purchased a house. So, I consider myself to be
among the ranks of successful black men.
I will not use my precious time to slander white people; I just want to set
the record straight of why black men date white women. Back in the day, one
of the biggest reasons why black men dated white women was because they were
considered easy.The black girls in my neighbourhood were raised in the
church.They were very strict about when the y lost their virginity and who
they lost it to.Because of our impatience to wait,brothers would look for
someone who would give it up easy without any hassle. So, they turned to the
white girls.
Nowadays, in my opinion, a lot of brothers date white women because they are
docile and easy to control.A lot of black men, because of
insecurities,fears,and overall weaknesses, have become intimidated by the
strength of our black women. We are afraid that our women will be more
successful than us, drive nicer cars and own bigger houses. Because of this
fear, many black men look for a more docile woman.Someone we can control.I
have talked to numerous black men and they continuously comment on how
easy it is to control and walk over their white women.I just want to set
the record straight.I want a disgusted White Girl to know that not all
successful black men date white women.
Brothers like Ahmad Rashad, Denzel Washington, Michael Jordan, Morris
Chestnut, Will Smith, Blair Underwood, Samuel. L. Jackson, and Chris Rock
all married strong black women. And to flip the script, there are numerous
white men in and out of the spot light, who openly or secretly desire black
women over white women. Ted Danson, Robert DeNiro and David Bowie to name a
few.I just don't want a Disgusted White Girl to be misinformed.Stop thinking
that because you are white that you are some type of Goddess.
Remember when black Egyptian queens like Hatsepshut and Nitorcris were
ruling dynasties and armies of men in Egypt, you were over in the caves of
Europe eating raw meat and beating each other over the head with clubs.
Read your history. It was the black woman that taught you how to cook and
season your food. It was the black woman who taught you how to praise your
children; it was black women who were breastfeeding and raising your babies
during slavery. It is the black woman that had to endure watching their
fathers, husbands, and children beaten, killed and thrown into jail. Black
women were born with two strikes against them: Being black and being a
woman! And through all of this,
STILL THEY RISE!
It is because of the black womans strength, elegance, power, love and
beauty that I could never date anyone except my Black Queens. It is not just
the outer beauty that captivates and draws me to them. It is not the fact
that they come in all different shapes and sizes, colours and shades that I
love them. Their strong spirit, loving and nurturing souls, their integrity,
their ability to overcome great obstacles, their willingness to stand for
what they believe in and their determination to succeed and reach their
highest potential while enduring great pain and suffering is why I have
fallen in love with a black women.
I honestly believe that your anger is geared more toward jealousy and envy
than snotty looks. If this were not so, then why do you continuously go to
tanning salons to darken your skin? If you are so proud to be white, then
why don't you just be happy with your pale skin? Why do you continue to
inject your lips, hips and breasts with unnatural and dangerous substances
so you can look fuller and more voluptuous? I think that your anger is
really a result of you wanting to have what the black women has.
Bottom Line: If I were looking for a docile woman, Someone I can walk over
and control, I would give you call. But unfortunately, I am looking for
virtuous women, someone that can be a good wife and mother to my children,
someone who can be my best friend and understand my struggles. I am looking
for a soul mate, I am looking for a sister and unfortunately you do not and
CANNOT fit the bill.I guess you are just SOL (sadly outta luck).No offence
taken, none given.**********************************************************************